Real Growth Takes Work
You already know something needs to change. Maybe you’re tired of reacting the same way, feeling stuck, or struggling in your relationships. Coaching gives you a space to slow down, get honest, and understand what’s really going on beneath the surface. I’m here to walk alongside you as you do the hard work of understanding yourself, challenging what’s holding you back, and becoming the man you want to be.
Knowing Yourself
The better you understand yourself, the better you can understand how you show up in the world. Through honest reflection and hard work, you’ll uncover what drives you, what matters to you, and the patterns that may be keeping you from becoming the man you want to be.
Challenge Your Beliefs
We all carry beliefs and stories that shape how we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. Through honest reflection and hard work, you’ll challenge what you’ve come to believe, uncover what may be holding you back, and create space for a stronger, more confident you.
Change Your Story
Your past may have shaped your story, but it doesn’t have to define where you go from here. Through honest reflection and hard work, you’ll challenge the stories you’ve been telling yourself and begin to create a new one—one that reflects the man you’re becoming.
About
I am dedicated to helping young men navigate their personal journeys with hope and purpose. With over 35 years of experience in coaching and mentoring, I provide a supportive space where you can gain self-awareness, strengthen emotional intelligence, and break free from limiting thoughts. Together, we’ll do the hard work, understanding where you are, where you want to go, and how God may be leading you forward. My coaching is customized to who you are, helping you grow stronger, live intentionally, and move forward with hope.
“Sergio helped me through one of the hardest periods of my life with a lot of empathy, care, and support. He really listened, checked in regularly, and held me accountable without ever making me feel judged. He helped me focus on what mattered to make real change in my life. Our sessions were more than just conversations, they gave me the structure and support I needed to make meaningful progress toward my goals.”
Jorge B.
“Working with Coach Surge gave me a space to slow down and really look at myself. I came in thinking I needed to figure out what to do next, but the conversations helped me understand why I was reacting to things the way I was. I walked away with more clarity about who I am, what matters to me, and what I need to work on. The questions weren’t always easy, but that’s what made the coaching valuable.”
Alex C.
“I thought coaching was going to be someone telling me what I should do. That’s not what happened with Coach Surge. He asked questions that made me challenge some of the things I had always believed about myself. I started seeing how some of my own thinking was keeping me stuck. I’m still doing the work, but I feel more confident, more intentional, and more aware of the man I want to become.”
Carlos S.
Coaching Philosophy
I believe everyone is capable of change; however, like any discipline worth pursuing, it is “Hard Work”. EQ Coaching is like having a personal trainer for the mind, where I facilitate your deep thought and emotional workouts, keep you accountable and push you to do just one more EQ rep. If you are very disciplined, you might be able to make small changes on your own, but it will be much harder for very small progress.
Growth is difficult and everyone develops at a different pace. I don’t promise it will be easy, but I do promise results, if you’re willing to do the work. With my coaching, you will strengthen your EQ (emotional intelligence) much faster and in a manner in which you will see results almost immediately.